Humans are intensely social creatures. Your friends and family want to spend time with you. Going out on the town is a blast but so is staying inside and having a cozy get together at home.
When it’s your turn to host, it’s natural to want to do a good job. After all, your friends will likely be hosting you next.
Let’s talk about a few things you can do to stand out.
Clean
You don’t need to pretend to be Martha Stewart. If you have no idea what a window treatment is, that’s okay. You do, however, need to make sure your home is comfortable and clean. No one likes hanging out in a dirty environment.
To keep your house looking great, there are a few things you should do once or twice a year. Pressure washer services, for example, can revitalize your home’s exterior.
In the meantime, picking up the clutter and wiping down the counters will be enough to not horrify your guests. If you want to go above and beyond, you can play around with creative touches like putting a vase of flowers on the table.
Interesting Food
Anyone can throw open a bag of chips and put a few beers on ice. That’s okay for a regular get together, but if you’re trying to create a memorable experience, you need to serve more interesting food.
Try picking a theme for your menu. Chinese food, seafood-focused, the options are endless. Once you have a theme to rein you in, it’ll be easier to find recipes.
If you don’t know how to cook, look up easy recipes online. A kabob loaded with high-quality meat and fresh vegetables is just as easy to prepare as pigs in a blanket.
Games
Your guests need something to do. Remember, you’re trying to make the night special. Sitting around the TV isn’t enough unless the party was specifically planned to watch a TV show or movie.
Games are a really fun way to keep people happy. There are countless board games geared for adults. If that’s not your style, you can try playing around with a deck of cards. Poker night anyone?
Special Requests
If you really want your guests to think you’re a great host, you need to make them feel good. One way to do that is to cater to their specific needs. If you know that someone is a vegetarian, include a tasty meatless option on your window. Small gestures go a long way.
When your friends are over, try to keep your home at a reasonable temperature. If someone mentions being hot or cold, accommodate them if you can.
Fun People
It’s hard to have a fun party if the guests aren’t having a good time. Your hosting abilities will be wasted if you invite people who don’t like each other. Everyone should have a good vibe.
The exception is when you’re dealing with family. You may have to invite people that you’re not exactly fond of or who love to start drama.
If you’re an introvert, don’t overwhelm yourself by inviting too many people. An intimate gathering is more suited to your tastes than a raging party.
Decorations
When you think about party decorations, you probably picture things like superhero tablecloths and glittery plates. But there are party design schemes for adults that are wonderfully sophisticated.
Are you having a dinner party? Putting effort into how the table looks will pay off. Your guests will love it. You can also play around with interesting decorations during the holidays. Christmas, Halloween, etc.
Planning
Most adults lead busy lives. If you want a lot of people to come to your event, you need to give them ample time to prepare. It’s also a good idea to host the party on a Friday night or a Saturday. People can let loose more if they’re not worried about going to work the next day.
Be Calm
At the end of the day, you’re hanging out with your friends and family, people who love you. You can impress them by being yourself and trying to have a good time. If something goes wrong with your plans, let it roll off of your back. Did the delicious mini quesadillas you were preparing burn in the oven? Don’t fret.
Being a good host is a skill that everyone should have. Even if you’re not an extremely social person. It allows you to connect to the people you care about.
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