Fashion for Tweens

Today’s kids are growing up fast and with ready access to numerous TV channels and the internet they themselves are becoming more and more fashion aware. Images of celebrities in the latest designer styles are everywhere and our youngsters are turning into little fashionistas at an earlier and earlier age. There is nothing wrong with taking an interest in the world of fashion but it can be problematic when young girls are lusting after styles which are inappropriate or just plain too expensive. Parents are getting bombarded with requests for things they likely won’t approve of so what do you do with your tween fashion starlet?

Manage Expectations

Kids should be kids and most parents do not want their young girls to where fashions which make them look too grown up too soon. There have to be some ground rules established regarding both style and budget. Clearly explain what your boundaries are and more importantly why you feel the way you do. Kids may not appear to be listening but the message should eventually get through especially if you emphasise that they can have more latitude as they get older and that if they want more expensive pieces they can do chores to earn a little cash to put towards them. Explain that when they are old enough and have a job and they can buy their own things and it will be up to them how much of their money they wish to dedicate to fashion.

Photograph of ‘No Heels Sign’ by Tine Steiss via Flickr (CC BY-SA 2.0)

Individual Style

Take the opportunity to explain the benefits of individual style. There is little to be gained from looking exactly like someone else. It is far better to create your own unique look and set the trends yourself. It is difficult for young people to go out on a limb because they all want to be accepted and admired by their peers but you can create a look which is current whilst still showing an individual twist. Introduce kids to the art of putting together outfits from the ranges you can afford and direct them towards interesting and colourful styles that will stand out. Perhaps it would also be useful to point out that anyone can look good if they spend a fortune but only clever people can do it on a budget! Emphasis that you are allowing your child some input into choosing what they wear as they will want to feel that they have a voice. They can make the choices but you are an advisor and have the power to veto.

Good Choices

The Right Look

You can satisfy your tween’s passion for fashion without creating a mini-me. Work together and you will find the styles that will satisfy both you and your child without breaking the bank.